The Reason Behind My Christmas Décor Cessation?

The Bible talks about a different group of people who were doing something similar to decorating a Christmas tree, but the author is genuinely celebrating Christmas with laughter, candlelight, flowers, and family. They have not stopped decorating or celebrating the birth of their Savior, but they have been noticing a lack of festivity in their house.

The author shares personal reasons for not celebrating Christmas this year, such as not being able to put up decorations, not having money to spend on decorations, and the environmental impact of decorations. They also mention that some people are Jewish, pagan, or Muslim and don’t have money to spend on decorations for the enjoyment of it.

The author also mentions that some people don’t celebrate Christmas because they don’t have the funds to do it big, so they don’t decorate. They love visiting houses that are well decorated and enjoy looking at what they have done. However, they typically don’t have the funding to do it big, so they don’t.

In summary, the author discusses their personal reasons for not celebrating Christmas and offers some holiday self-care tips. They emphasize that not decorating will not stop Christmas, as it is a time of joy and peace, but it can be overwhelming and stressful. By focusing on celebrating and making each day count, the author hopes to make the holiday season more enjoyable and less stressful.


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Is it okay to not decorate for Christmas?

Interior designer Lesley Myrick shares her personal preference for minimalism in home decor, rather than party planning, tablescaping, and holiday decorating. She believes that the holiday season is the time when many people get excited about putting effort into their home decor, but she also finds the sheer volume of decorations annoying and adds stress to the already busy season.

Lesley Myrick suggests that instead of having a house full of tiny Santas, one should focus on creating a festive atmosphere that brings warmth, sparkle, coziness, and connection to the home. This involves all five senses: sounds, smells, touches, and tastes of the season. The sounds of the holidays can be evoked through music like Mannheim Steamroller’s 1984 album “Christmas”, which transports the listener back to childhood.

Digital Christmas music can make it feel like living in a Hallmark movie, while holiday smells and tastes can be introduced through burning candles, diffusing essential oils, and baking pies with the kids.

Materials that make the home feel cozy and cuddly include chunky knit blankets, faux-fur pillows, and fabrics with a hint of sparkle. Drape a festive blanket over the back of your sofa and add a seasonal throw pillow for a mini room makeover that won’t take up much storage space the rest of the year. Lighting can also be used to evoke holiday magic, with simple plug-in dimmers for table lamps turning them from functional to moody and magical. Flickering candles are always welcome, and the warm glow of a fireplace is always welcome.

Lesley Myrick emphasizes that there’s no right or wrong way to decorate for the holiday season, but if it feels like a burden instead of a benefit, choosing simple sensory pleasures over the frenzy of holiday decorating might be the key to capturing the feel of the season you’ve been longing for. By combining holiday tunes, something delicious to snack on, a warm blanket to wrap around you, and ambient lighting, you can create a festive atmosphere that doesn’t feel like a burden.

Is it OK not to go home for Christmas?
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Is it OK not to go home for Christmas?

During the holidays, it’s important to remember that your choices are yours, and staying home should be honored and respected. The guilt around staying home can be self-imposed or come from external pressures, such as family and societal expectations. However, it’s crucial to prioritize your well-being and life. Acknowledging the disappointment of loved ones, such as parents, siblings, or close friends, can be a challenging aspect of staying home.

It’s essential to accept their disappointment and excuse yourself from guilt, as it’s a personal choice and should be respected. Remember that your well-being is at stake, and your well-being should always be a top priority.

Why is everyone decorating for Christmas so early?
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Why is everyone decorating for Christmas so early?

Psychoanalyst Steve McKeown and therapist Amy Morin have both found that putting up Christmas decorations early can extend excitement and connect people to their childhood memories. They believe that nostalgia helps link people to their personal past and helps them understand their identity. Research by Science Direct in 2020 also found that people who prepare early are seen as more personable, as decorations interacted with sociability in a complex but interpretable way.

In the absence of Christmas decorations, raters accurately distinguished between the homes of sociable and non-sociable residents, attributed to the relatively more “open” and “lived in” look of the sociable residents’ homes. This suggests that putting up Christmas decorations early can help people reconnect with their childhoods and maintain a sense of community.

Why is everyone putting up Christmas decorations early?

Christmas decorations can help people reconnect with their childhoods and connect with their personal past, according to a study by Psychotherapist Amy Morin. Research by Science Direct in 2020 found that people who prepare early are seen as more personable, with decorations acting as a cue for friendly and cohesive homes. In the absence of decorations, raters accurately distinguished between sociable and non-sociable homes, attributed to the more open and lived-in look of sociable residents’ homes. The study suggests that people should not wait until December to enjoy the benefits of Christmas decorations.

How many people don’t decorate for Christmas?

The majority of Americans plan to decorate for the holidays, with an average of four hours spent on the task. Christmas trees are the most popular decorations, with 67 people preferring fake trees and 33 preferring real ones. Other popular decorations include garland, Christmas lights, mistletoes, and snowmen. Half of Americans decorate their homes with both indoor and outdoor Christmas lights, while 1 in 3 only decorate with indoor lights and 1 in 10 only use outdoor lights.

Does decorating for Christmas make you happier?

The practice of Christmas decorating has been shown to have a positive effect on mood and energy levels. Psychologists have found that the use of colors and lights in decorations can act as a form of chromotherapy, increasing the production of dopamine, the hormone associated with feelings of happiness.

Is it OK to not do Christmas?

The author asserts that it is permissible to refrain from celebrating Christmas, emphasizing that the essence of the holiday is the act of giving. The authors posit that if an individual receives a gift, it can be distributed to their loved ones at a later point in time.

Is it okay to not want anything for Christmas?

The author posits that a lack of enjoyment in the act of gift-giving does not indicate a deficiency in character, but rather a misallocation of time. The argument is made that the act of giving a gift should be enjoyed, as it is comparable to the act of purchasing a gift. Additionally, the author indicates that they derive pleasure from both the process and the act of giving.

Do Millennials decorate for Christmas?

Generation Y is more interested in celebrating Christmas through activities like decorations and themed bashes than attending church services. Research shows that few younger adults belong to any particular faith, and they prefer to dabble in the cultural aspect of the holiday season, such as Secret Santa parties and eggnog. This is why they tend to visit religious services less frequently. However, the demographic also has easier access to resources that allow them to immerse themselves more in the cultural aspect of the holiday season.

Are people who decorate for Christmas happier?

The practice of Christmas decorating has been shown to have a positive effect on mood and energy levels. Psychologists have found that the use of colors and lights in decorations can act as a form of chromotherapy, increasing the production of dopamine, the hormone associated with feelings of happiness.

What is the point of decorating for Christmas?
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What is the point of decorating for Christmas?

The practice of Christmas decorating represents a cherished tradition that has been passed down through generations. It serves as a means of honoring and connecting with past customs.


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Rafaela Priori Gutler

Hi, I’m Rafaela Priori Gutler, a passionate interior designer and DIY enthusiast. I love transforming spaces into beautiful, functional havens through creative decor and practical advice. Whether it’s a small DIY project or a full home makeover, I’m here to share my tips, tricks, and inspiration to help you design the space of your dreams. Let’s make your home as unique as you are!

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  • I just wanted to say that I have followed you since you were on your old website in your old room at your parents house. We are the same age and I have always related to you, getting engaged and married young and starting a life with my husband. We have a similar style and I have always loved and looked forward to your articles and seeing your energy and personality! I am a southern girl as well, I live in central Alabama. I feel like you are on old friend that I catch up with through your articles! I hope you keep doing youtube for a very long time! 🙂

  • i am so sorry about the negative comments on your weekend vlogs i really enjoy them i would click thumbs up but wouldn’t comment because there are youtubers that dont like that and never interact with the subscribers . i totally understand where you coming from i hope you can get back one day to weekends vlogs … i really enjoy your articles have a blessed and wonderful weekend.

  • Hi Maureen! Sorry to hear about the negativity you received for living your life and sharing with us. I personally miss your vlogs but understand that you need some space to regroup. Keep your head up and don’t let the internet trolls make you doubt how much joy you bring to people through your articles. I def miss the grocery/coupon hauls and the target shopping trips. Loyal subby. Xo, Jo

  • I like daily vlogs, although I’m sure that would be difficult to keep up with, esp. since you’re working from home. Some people do clips from days in one article including various aspects (and Remmy too, of course ;), then post once a week. Do you think that might work for you? Those kind are my favorites. P.S. I’m sorry you got negative feedback on the weekend vlogs. Only reason I didn’t watch them too much is just because I’m kind of older and very landlocked. They looked like fun though!! You seem like a real sweet lady and David seems real sweet too.

  • I totally love all your vlogs including the weekend vlogs. I’m so sorry about the negativity you experienced. It was totally undeserved and the bits I saw had envy as the root cause. You didn’t mention Target as one of your favourite pastimes! Really looking forward to your Mickeys Happy Halloween party vlogs, that’s a fabulous vacation to look forward to. Praying for your future family Christmas, you and David will be wonderful parents X

  • That’s disappointing about the weekend vlogs 🙁 I miss your DITL ones as well. I didn’t always comment because I didn’t want to be ‘that’ subscriber lol I can’t wait for your fall decorating article because I love fall & you always help put me more in the holiday spirit by seeing your love for them & traditions.

  • I have been perusal your articles for quite a while and I love them! I always liked the weekend vlogs, but I totally understand why you stopped. I love Christmas as well (like put the Christmas decorations up after Halloween, watch Christmas movies in July kind of love lol). Wish you guys the best and hope you get your dream Christmas soon. 🎄❄️☃

  • Love you articles- I’ve been binge perusal all your articles from the start of your website 😊 sorry you have been getting some negative comments- I loved your weekend vlogs but can understand why you’re only going to do them every once in a while. I don’t think people realise the amount of work that goes into making content for a YouTube website xxxx

  • I don’t get a lot of feed back on my articles, and the negative ones sometimes come in the messages. But I just move on. I see it this way, my website is my website and I will post the content I enjoy. I’ve felt like not vlogging, or my life gets busy where I cannot. When I don’t post, that’s when the comments come along, saying that I am missed. I’ve also had subs tell me they watch but do not leave comments. I think you should post the content you want! And know, your subs will watch even when you vlog. Do as you feel you want, don’t let others change your goals.

  • I enjoy everything you post. I’ve been following you since your previous website and have always admired your dedication to family, friends, YouTube etc. I’m sorry to hear about the negative comments…..I’ve seen the SNIDE REMARKS from time to time from one person in particular. I fully support the decision you’ve made about the weekend vlogs. I look forward to perusal whatever you decide to post………you put a smile on my face and brighten my day. 🙂 Have a wonderful weekend!!!

  • I love that we share the same love for the holidays! You’re going to absolutely have so much fun at MNSSHP! I’ve gone the past 4 years, and I’m so excited for this year! I know you’ve probably watched a ton of vlogs/read a bunch of blogs but I just want to leave a few helpful tips! 😊 The 2nd parade is the least crowded! You can start entering MK at 4 PM, and get your wristband! The 12 AM showing of The Hocus Pocus show will help you make the most of your time! So many adults go trick or treating so make sure to take the candy bags they hand out. 🎃

  • I watched both articles and you were a beautiful bride. Your wedding dress is gorgeous and you had a pretty veil. I love the idea of a pre-wedding photo shoot, the pictures are just stunning. I’m sure it was a lovely day that you will cherish for all time. I don’t mean to leave David out, he was a very handsome groom. ☺

  • Well girlie I always try to comment on your articles but have drifted the past month or so when my brother passed. He was not married and had no kids so it was just me and my family. The fast few weeks I’ve had to get his apartment packed and cleaned and stuff stored and now my house is in chaos from what we brought here .. Anyway love you decorating and home tours .. Hopefully I’ll have my house cleaned by then so I’ll get some decorating ideas!! Always enjoy your articles and your moms!! Carol

  • I have a bad habit of perusal and not commenting just because I don’t have alot of time to comment. I loved your weekend vlogs and although I rarely comment, I watch just about every single article you post. you seem to be a fantastic women and I look forward to your postings! keep up the great work girl!

  • We love all your vlogs/vids! You are a very positive and inspiring person and my hope is that you never let the negativity from others affect what you are sharing here. For every hater there are likely 100’s of others that love what you are doing but might not take the time to comment as much as we should. Thank you for being YOU! ~*~

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